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V900's avatar

If you want kids to be independent btw, maybe change the laws. I used to take the train to school by myself when I was ten. Pretty sure a parent could be charged with neglect in many places in America for letting their ten year old go off on a 30 minute trek by themselves.

Stop helicopter parenting.

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Yep, I watched this trend grow while I was working in the school market. It's ridiculous. I walked and biked to my elementary (our bike racks were FULL of bikes), middle and high school, as well as bussed (winter).

It was fun, and we enjoyed it.

Some of this is because of the simultaneous -national fear campaign about people abducting children, and also - this police state BS whereby it's considered criminal to let you kids outside unattended.

But it's also, helicopter parenting, lazy children (and their lazy children, now adult parents), and the same mobile culture that has people ordering DoorDash for garbage fast food, or Amazon, or whatever... anything for "convenience".

hell, when I was a kid, it was humiliating for your parents to walk you to your bus stop, and/or stay there until you were picked up.

Although, as an aside, a few years ago, I found a toddler, wandering around near a 50 mph road, next to some townhomes. It took me 5 minutes of knocking on doors to find his home and shitbag parents.

There's just too many parts of our culture and society, disintegrating at once, to keep track, or to fix them all in isolation.

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